Who dreamed up a law
that prevents parents from access to medical information about their over 18
year-old kids—unless these famously still-adolescent offspring have signed a
HIPAA waiver? I’m betting that in most
cases even neurotypical kids want and
need their parents’ help in dealing
with doctors. Especially when filling out endless forms, asking for a detailed
family history, medication dosage and frequency, and, yes at the very bottom of
the paper mountain, that pesky HIPAA form. Since most young adult kids are
covered by their parents’ insurance (up to age 26, thanks to Obama), many
parents are still making and paying for
medical appointments. It seems like an
obvious disservice to everyone to keep caring and paying parents in the
dark. If kids are emancipated minors who
pay their own bills, that’s another story.
Those young adults have proven themselves to be highly independent,
capable of managing their own lives, and they have earned the right to privacy.
Thanks to the current HIPAA law, yesterday
at the doctor’s office I was unable to pick up my daughter Sarah’s medical
forms. These comprise the very last piece of a package that needs to be
submitted to the Office for Persons with Developmental Disabilities (OPWDD) in order to secure enough support and funding to allow my
daughter’s dream of being independent to come true. At the doctor’s office, a nurse explained the
glitch: While Sarah had signed her name
on the HIPAA form, she failed to put my name on it. (See “Mommy Vortex,”
6/14/13, where I described the limits to Sarah’s independence and her difficulty
filling out detailed medical forms). The office receptionist told me the HIPAA form
needed to be redone correctly. I should bring a blank form home to my daughter,
have her sign it, add my name and return it to the doctor’s office the next
day. (!!!) So the disenfranchised Mom gets to do errands for her daughter,
placate an uncaring medical secretary, and redo a medical form that could have
been filled out correctly the first time if we’d been given proper instruction
or if anyone had bothered to look at it while we were there. Adding insult to
injury, Mom has to pay the doctor bills BUT receive NO information. By the way, at the time of Sarah’s
appointment, I tried to be thorough by asking the medical secretary if my
daughter had properly signed the HIPAA form. At the time, she said yes. What
she neglected to add was that Sarah had failed to put my name (or anyone
else’s) on the form, thus rendering it meaningless. Who else has played Catch 22 with their doctors? And if I can’t get a straight and complete
answer from the medical secretary, what hope does my daughter have of
navigating the system alone?
When
Sarah was 19, the HIPAA laws created a big problem for her. During freshman year of college in Vermont, (at a school where all the students have disabilities) Sarah was sexually assaulted
by another student. Our daughter almost
didn’t tell us, and she had a limited understanding of how badly she had been
violated. When we reported the incident
to the administration, the college offered to take her to the hospital, but she
didn’t want to go. Sarah preferred to
continue on with her life, go to dinner and a party as if nothing had
happened. Even after we convinced to her
allow college personnel to take her to the hospital, the hospital had asked her
if she wanted various tests for pregnancy and STDs. Our daughter said “no” because the law
allowed her to do so. The problem was
that Sarah didn’t understand WHY she needed the medical tests or why they were
important. No one had explained things to my already vulnerable daughter in a
way she could comprehend. No intelligent person says “yes” to a medical
procedure they don’t understand. As soon
as I explained things to Sarah, she was willing to return to the hospital and
undergo the appropriate testing. Why
didn’t the special needs college or supposedly educated hospital personnel try
to communicate with our daughter in a way that a young adult on the spectrum
would understand? I can only guess they
didn’t consider it part of their job description.
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